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Jordan LaHaye, MHC (They/Them)

Staff Therapist

As a queer and TGNC therapist, I works with adults and relationships seeking more honest and authentic connections with themselves and others. Beginning any journey in life can feel unpredictable, especially if it is in uncharted territory, and I aim to create a space where clients feel deeply seen, supported, and empowered to move toward the life and relationships that feel most authentic to them. 

I specialize in supporting LGBTQIA+, kink/BDSM, and consensually non-monogamous and polyamorous communities, offering affirming, sex-positive, and nonjudgmental care grounded in relational, psychodynamic, and trauma-informed approaches. I am passionate about working with clients seeking to untangle internalized messages, find their identity, explore intricate relationship dynamics, and cope with the current state of the world. 

Clients often describe my style as warm, collaborative, gently challenging, and grounded in humor and compassion. My work is rooted in feminist and anti-oppressive values, with deep respect for the ways identity, culture, community, and systems of oppression shape our experiences. Together, we’ll explore patterns that may feel unprocessed or limiting, build greater self-awareness and resilience, and work towards meaningful change. I look forward to welcoming you as you embark on this journey.

Jordan practices therapy in New York and offers coaching anywhere

Provider Identities

Neurodivergent
Queer
Non-binary
Non-monogamous
Lesbian

Client concerns or identities

Neurodivergent
Queer
Transgender
Non-binary
Kinky
Non-monogamy
Asexual
Disabled
Sex therapy
Trauma
Sex workers
Anxiety
Depression
Identity exploration
Couples/relationships
Students
Athletes

Provider Approach

Narrative
Psychodynamic
CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy)
ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy)
IFS (Internal Family Systems)
Trauma-informed
Anti-oppressive
Feminist
Decolonizing
Relational
Systems